The show is finally over and although it's kind of sad, I have already breathed a great big sigh of relief. Some things turned out just the way I planned and some things... did not. But so what. I know what I would do differently next time.
To quote the caterpillar, "Remember, Alice, inner fabulousity. Now answer this one simple question: Whoooooo are youuuuuu?"
I'm closer to knowing. Thanks, Alice.